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I HOPE THIS HELPS BROTHERS AND SISTERS, MAINLY BROTHERS :-) I GOT SOME EMAILS SUGGESTING TO PUT A TOPIC BASED ON MASTERBATION SO I DID...
 
HUDHAFIZ

Masturbation in Islam

Allah (Exalted is He) says: “And those who guard their private parts from their wives and those (slave-girls) which their right-hands own - so there is no blame upon them. Then whoever seeks beyond that (which is lawful), they are the transgressors”.

Masturbation is also considered as “seeking beyond” with reference to the Quranic verse above.

Suhail son of Sai’d (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s’ Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever gives me the assurance (not to unlawfully use) what is between their jaws and their legs (i.e. the tongue and the private parts), I give them the assurance of the Heaven. (Bukhari)

Abu Hurrairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet of Allah (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever Allah protects, from the evil (sh’r) of what is between their jaws and between their legs, will enter Paradise. [Tirimzi]

Imam Shamsuddin Zahabbi (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates a Prophetic narration that, “Seven people are such that Allah has cursed them and He will not even cast a look of mercy upon them on the Day of Judgment. Allah will tell them to enter Hell with the people who are going to Hell, except those who repent.
1. One who performs the act of sodomy.
2. One upon whom the act of sodomy is performed.
3. One who does bad deeds with animals.
4. One who marries his mother or sister.
5. One who masturbates.” (The words of the hadith says these seven people but lists five - Kitab-ul-Kaba’ir p.48)

Allama Mahmood Alussi (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates in Ruh-ul-Ma’ni: “Atta (may Allah be pleased with him) says that I have heard that on the Day of Judgment one group will be brought in such a way that their hands will be pregnant. I think they are the masturbators.” Allama Alussi further says: Saéed bin Jubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: “Allah Exalted will inflict punishment on a group of people because they misused their private parts.” (Ruh-ul-Ma'ni p. 291)

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet of Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The person who performs marriage [nikah] with his hands (i.e. masturbates) is cursed.” (Fatawa Razaviyya, Vol. 10, p.80)

Abdullah bin Masood (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: “O group of youth! Whoever from among you can marry should do so because it keeps the gaze low and it protects the private parts. And he who cannot marry should fast because fasting breaks lust.” (Muslim – Book of Marriage)

Mufti Waqar-ud-din Al-Qadri (Hanfi) writes in “Waqar-ul-Fatawa” (Vol. 1, P. 269): “If a person is overpowered by sexual desire such that there is fear of him becoming involved in adultery or he is not capable of marrying or his wife is so far that he can't go there. Then it is hoped there is no punishment for the one doing this [masturbation]. It is written in “Durr-e-Mukhtar” (Vol. 2, Pp 109) (by Sheikh Alla’ud Din Muhammed son of Ali Haskiffi, died 1088H): ‘If there is fear of committing adultery then it is hoped that there is no punishment on the one doing this (masturbation)’. Allama (Syed Mohammed Amin Ash-Shaheerba Bin Abideen) Shammi, (may Allah’s mercy be upon him, died 1253H) has also argued on this quite a lot and decided that if he does this with the intention of saving himself from committing sin it will not be a sin and if he does it with the intention of enjoyment he will be a sinner.”

The Holy Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said, "No doubt the virtues wipe away the sins". Therefore a masturbator must repent sincerely with an intention that he will never commit it again and do good deeds. According to a Prophetic narration, "The one who repents is like the who does not have any sin."

Hi Sflyl,
There are some opinions that say masturabation is totally haram in all cases and others that say its not haram if you are not married and it is done to prevent fornication. However, since you are a girl take care cause if you are a virgin you can lose your virginity unintentionally.

Regarding the ghusl, you take a shower just like you do after your period then you can pray. But you cant just perform wodoo and pray after you masturabate.

you asked what if you try to lessen masturbation till you stop. Personally, i'm doing this and I think it's working and when you dont masturbate for a long time it happens during your sleep and this is not haram in any way. however, if you wake up and remember you should do ghusl.

Finally, i'm with you that there is very little or no information available regarding female masturbation in islam. Probably because women dont dare to talk about the subject and ask questions like men.
 
 
Asslamoulikum!

it's not allowed for any of spouses to masterbate ownself before other spouse even on demand. the rulling has been derived from the same source on which masterbation has been decleared haram. and this source is an "Ayah" the interpattion of which is " Allah has made hilal ur partners(spouses) and ur right hand posesses upon u and who crave for anything else is a transgrassor."
oh the basis of this "Ayah Mubarika" Imam Malik , Imam shafi and Imam Abu Hanifa decleared masterbation haram. the slight difference in ruling of these Imams is another issue. they explained that any sort of sex activity which is not being done by a partner (i.e. dony by own self) is haram. now masterbating before onse's spouse on demand by him/her but with own hands is same as done alone. i hope u must be knowing that the law of allah (swt) overules everything else. so it's considered haram no matter it's on demand or not by ur pratner.
but matual masterbation is allowed as husband and wife r completly allowed to do anything they like and in any way they like except , offcourse, anal sex and sex during menses. they can see, kiss, touch any part of each other's body as said in above ayah that they have been made Hilal for eachother.
more viewing into the matter carefully, by doing this husband is making her wife addicted of having sex even without him and this can lead to some other issues like lack of desire to get him or sometimes cheating upon him. all these r psychological effacts which a wife can undergo if her husband make her to masterbate herself before him. this can also creat a desire in her to be sexual before others. there r a lot of other espects which r to be thought before doing such activity.
anyhow these r just possibilities but there r some good muslimah Mashallah which knows all these things and fear Allah so much but majority of muslims now a days r more western than religious. anyhow this is another discussion so let me end saying that it's not a good moral deed as well.

i hope i was able to clear my point.

be safe
Jazakulkhair.
 
 

Masturbation

    Question: Is masturbation haram? The reason im asking this cuz i have so many friends they some says its haram some says its a natural thing . Its keep you away from bad deeds.. My second question is If Someone is Fasting and he gets horny some how "as u know sexual urges are natural and come and go ". So doing masterbating while on fasting is it bad or it doenst matter ? some ppl say it doenst matter cuz its a natural thing , some says its matter your fast broke if u do the masterbation ??
     

    Answer:

    1. The fiqh regarding masturbation may be found below.

    2. The very meaning of Islam is submission: we submit our bodies, hearts, minds, and souls to Allah Most High, out of thankfulness for the blessing and life-giving light of His religion.

    Allah tests our slavehood. Many people have 'natural' tendencies and urges towards that which Allah has declared unlawful. This is our test with Allah Most High.

    Allah Most High said in the Qur'an,
    "And the soul and He who perfected it
    And inspired it (with conscience of) what is wrong and right for it.
    He is indeed successful who purifies it,
    And he is indeed a failure who stunts it." [Qur'an, 91:9-10]
     

    The Ruling on Masturbation: Prohibitively Disliked & Sinful

    Masturbation is sinful, being prohibitively disliked, because of its many personal and societal ill-effects that are known and recognised in sane traditional societies and by balanced people the world over.

    As for modern 'expert' opinions that there is 'nothing wrong with it,' these are the opinions of the same people who see nothing wrong with fornication, nudity, and most other personal and social depravity.

    The early Muslims used to say, "The one who weds his hand is accursed." (Fath al-Qadir)

    Its prohibition was established by Allah Most High's words, "Those who guard their private parts, except from their spouses..." [Qur'an, 23: 5]

    Thus, the general ruling regarding sexual activity is that it is impermissible, except through the particular channel that Allah permitted, out of His tremendous wisdom and mercy for His creation.

    The rulings of the Shariah are for the worldly and eternal benefit of humanity, as a manifestation of the tremendous mercy of Allah, for Allah Himself is absolutely free of any need. Rather, it is we who need guidance, to give true joy and illumination to our lives in this world and the next.

    So, When Could Masturbation Possibly Be Allowed?

    Masturbation is only allowed in the very rare situation where:
     

    • if the person did not do this, they genuinely fear that they would fall into actual zina (i.e. unlawful sexual intercourse), because of their uncontrollable desire, and
    • they are unable to marry, and
    • have taken all reasonable means to lessen their passion (such as fasting, lowering their gaze, avoiding meat and dairy products, avoiing those things that stir their desires, such as bad company, spending unnecessary time outdoors, especially in public places such as shopping malls where there is fitna, avoiding watching tv and surfing the internet, etc).


    In such cases, it is not haram because of the principle that, "If there are only two options, but harmful, then one takes the lesser of the two harms to avoid the greater one."

    However, when there are third options, it remains impermissible to take the lesser harm, such as masturbation.

    Even when the conditions outlined above are met, it would only not be impermissible to the extent necessary to quieten one's sexual desire, not for sexual gratification. Otherwise, it would remain sinful. These conditions are extremely rare.

    [derived from: Ibn Abidin's Hashiya, al-Lakhnawi's Naf` al-Mufti wa'l Sa'il, and al-Nahlawi's Durar al-Mubaha, Kamal ibn al-Humam's Fath al-Qadir]

    As for the fast: masturbation that leads to ejaculation invalidates the fast.

    And Allah knows best.

    Answered by Sidi Faraz Rabbani of the Hanafi fiqh list.

    [Sidi Faraz Rabbani is a student of Hanafi fiqh based in Amman, Jordan. He is originally from Toronto, Canada. He has upcoming translations in Hanafi fiqh, including "Ilm al-Hal: An Essential Hanafi Primer" and Imam al-Shurunbulali's "Ascent to Felicity" (Maraqi al-Sa`adat). He also teaches Hanafi fiqh texts to students in Arabic and in English.]


    Question: Shaykh Yusuf Qaradawi in "The Lawful and the Prohibited in Islam" writes that Imam Ahmad (Allah be well pleased with him) regarded semen as an excretion of the body like other excreta and permitted its expulsion as blood letting is permitted. However, Shaykh Yusuf then goes on to say that Hanbali jurists permit masturbation only under two conditions: first, the fear of committing fornication or adultery, and second, not having the means to marry. This begs the question...Is masturbation permissable in the Hanbali madhhab, and if so, is it qualified by any conditions?

    Answer:

    Before talking about the issue of masturbation, it is appropriate to first mention the rulings regarding people getting married.

    [Marriage in general]

    In general, people fall under three categories:

    (1) recommended (sunna)-- for those who feel sexual desire (shahwah) but do not fear that this will drive them to fornicate. This is applies to males and females alike, and even to men too poor to be able to provide for maintenance and upkeep. This is an opinion stated by Imam Ahmad (Allah be pleased with him). It is better for someone who has sexual desire to be busy with marriage than seeking seclusion for works of worship.

    (2) obligatory (wajib)-- for those who fear that they will fornicate if they do not marry, whether male or female. The person does not have to be certain that they will fornicate, rather it suffices that they fear that they may if they do not marry. When someone in this situation must choose between making Hajj or marriage, marriage is given precedence to the Hajj because of the fear that by one will commit the unlawful by delaying marriage.

    (3) permissible (mubah)-- for someone who does not feel sexual desire, whether this has always been the case or their desire has left due to
    sickness or old age. [Dar Al-Harb]

    In addition, marriage is haram in Dar Al-Harb unless there is legal necessity (durura).

    Legal necessity is defined as that the one's religion, life, mind, family & reputation, or property require it. It does not include that which removes difficulty from the above, which is called need (hajja), or that which makes the above nicer, which is luxury (tahsini).

    In Dar Al-Harb it is permissible to marry when there is legal necessity.

    If someone marries in Dar Al-Harb while it is unlawful for him to do so, it is obligatory for to use some form of birth control; otherwise, it is recommended to do so.

    [Masturbation]

    Regarding the position of the Hanbali madhhab regarding masturbation, Kashshaf Al-Qina` (6:125) indicates that whoever masturbates out of fear of committing fornication or fear for their body has done nothing wrong and is not punished if (and only if) he is unable to marry--even a slave girl--and if he was able to marry it is unlawful and he is entitled to punishment. This applies to men and women equally. The reason given is out of necessity (durara), which was mentioned above.

    Please note that one of the conditions is that the person in question not even be able to marry a slave girl who is someone else's property, which means that any children would be born into slavery. What is significant here is that having your children born slaves is better than masturbation. This is not a light matter.

    Also please note that provided there is someone that one could marry, masturbation is unlawful. No where does it say that the spouse has to be from the same culture, has to be a perfect match, or anything like that. As long as there is an upright marriageable Muslim it is unlawful, and if not punished in this world it surely is in the next. It goes back to availability, not economic stability, diploma, beauty, hair color, nationality, ethnicity or cultural origins. There are a lot of people who mix up necessity, need and luxury. This ruling is about necessity.

    In closing, we know that divorce is the most despicable of lawful things to Allah, whereas fornication is haram. Parents should keep this in mind before putting so many conditions that must be met before marriage, especially since anything that leads to the unlawful is itself unlawful.

    And Allah knows best.

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